Rapists
mardi 7 novembre 2017 à 01:00Harvey Weinstein is being investigated for rape, because one of the many accusations is recent enough that it could be prosecuted.
What I find most shocking about this report is the total selfishness of his reported actions, lacking the slightest interest in intimacy with her.
I can't imagine having sex that way even with someone who asked me to. Without a feeling of shared intimacy, and the hope it will continue beyond that sexual act, what would be the point? If my hand on her head isn't comforting and exciting for her, and likewise her hand on my head, we aren't in a situation to consider going any further.
I suppose this is what is meant by the statement that rape is about power, not desire. Rapists, at least many of them, are not trying to force someone into an act of intimacy. They seem to want a sex act that has no intimacy in it, and that act is what I can't imagine.