I don't think that the purpose of Ashley Madison (facilitating sexual
affairs for married people) was bad in itself. However, the company
did many sleazy things
, going as far as to accept pay to
delete
people's profiles, then not really deleting them.
It also committed negligence that
could leak data about its users
, and the
worst instance was keeping so information about them in the first place.
I feel no sympathy for the company, but I condemn
the wrong that the
crackers (please don't call them "hackers")
have done
to the users of the site in taking their data hostage.
I also disagree with the crackers supposed moral grounds for trying to
shut the site down. I don't regard monogamy as ethically privileged.
On the contrary, I disapprove of possessiveness and oppose the social
pressure for people to agree to monogamy which doesn't fit them.
Therefore, I do not criticize having an affair, and I reject the label
of
"cheating" for it.