I dislike that question, because for most people, I think, the matter is much more nuanced. I am definitely straight when it comes to romance (I prefer female-male “affection”). I also have a bias towards and more adoration for the “female” form. But pure raw fucking, I am bi all the way. See this post for more on that and gender and stuff: http://tommyjones651.tumblr.com/post/93951166671/regarding-my-sexuality

I’ll see what I can do.

I have been back to a gay sauna twice since that first visit (http://tommyjones651.tumblr.com/post/102226856551/first-time-gay-blowjob). I enjoy it immensely, but the whole having-no-idea-if-the-guy-sucking-you-off-has-an-STD thing prevents me from going more often. If there was some way of screening people based on current STD status (e.g. using recent printed STD results), I’d be much more keen.

Nope. Looks expensive (http://infernalmonkey.com/2015/03/04/i-went-to-takarajima-24-an-onahole-internet-cafe/) considering I can do the same at home.

Northern part :-)