I find it ironic that this photo of mine (of me about to deepthroat a dildo) is trending right now. Ironic because I’m currently writing up my account of the first time I actually got a blowjob, and the first time I gave someone deepthroat. Thank goodness his cock was smaller than that dildo.

tommyjones651:

I got blown by two strangers in the weekend. Two Japanese guys. Which feels unreal to write. But it happened. And the full story, uncensored and in honest detail, is coming today…cue the feelings of complete and utter vulnerability. This is my story of experiencing the first…

Ohmigoodness I’m looking forward to reading, partly just cos I’m hugely surprised that you’ve never had casual sex or a blow job?! Or do you just mean with guys? Your vulnerability is beautiful tommyjones651 and deeply appreciated, in the way that our exposed selves unite us. Looking forward to hearing more!

Thanks for the enthusiasm slipperybbw :-) To answer your question, I’d never had a blowjob, ever, from anyone. The two previous sexual partners I had (both women) both happened to be quite squeamish (bless their hearts), and didn’t like the thought of putting a cock in their mouths…

As for casual sex, I grew up as an evangelical Christian, right up till age 28 or so. So casual sex was pretty much on part with murder and rape, in terms of “sinfulness”. So it’s all new to me :-)

I got my first ever blowjob from a man this weekend. This is the first part of a five-part blog post about how it went down, and how I feel about it all.

Part 1 (current post) | Part 2 | Part 3 | Part 4 | Part 5 (coming)

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I live in northern Japan, and I had to jump on down to Tokyo for a two-day conference. So that’s a flight to Tokyo at 7:30am on Saturday, and a flight back home at 7pm on Sunday. A total of around 30 hours in the big smoke. And I decided that I would stay Saturday night in a sauna hotel for gays.

I’d never stayed in such an establishment before. Heck, two weeks prior, I didn’t know they even existed. But for a long time, I had wondered whether such a place did exist. I mean, I can’t be the only bi-sexually oriented guy in the world who at least sometimes fantasizes about getting off with another guy. And surely someone has thought of providing a place for like-minded guys to meet?

So when it came to booking a hotel for the weekend, I Googled “hotels for Gays in Tokyo”. My search was in Japanese (東京 ホテル ゲイ), but I ended up at the website for the 24Kaikan - an apparently well known establishment in the gay community in Tokyo (http://www.juno.dti.ne.jp/~kazuo24/).

I called the Shinjuku location a week ahead of my trip and booked a single occupancy room for Saturday night. They asked me for my name and address. I told them I was Tommy Jones from (the city I live in in northern Japan). The night would cost me 5,000yen (around US$50), which is perfectly reasonable for a hotel room in Tokyo.

Fast forward to Saturday last week (the 1st of November 2014), I found myself on a train in crowded Tokyo, wondering what I had gotten myself into.

I had a lot of vague expectations about the sauna. And to be honest, I was really nervous, but at the same time really excited. I had read that there were seven floors in the converted apartment building. 3rd floor housed the large communal bathroom. The Shinjuku location website has photos here: http://www.juno.dti.ne.jp/~kazuo24/shinjyuku/24-photo08.htm

What the photos don’t show is the dark labyrinth of shower stalls (with glory holes drilled into the walls) and dingy saunas behind a curtain at the far end of the bathroom. It was in one of those dingy saunas that I got my second ever blow job in my life…which I shall get to in due time.

On the 4th to 6th floors of the building are communal sleeping rooms, with either large open sleeping areas or bunk beds (http://www.juno.dti.ne.jp/~kazuo24/shinjyuku/24-photo13.htm). Some of the rooms have reclining bed-like spaces in front of which are TVs showing x-rated gay porn (http://www.juno.dti.ne.jp/~kazuo24/shinjyuku/24-photo14.htm). On the 7th floor are the private rooms (either one-, two-, or three-person rooms - http://www.juno.dti.ne.jp/~kazuo24/shinjyuku/24-photo18.htm).

To be honest, as I was wandering through Tokyo after the first day of the conference, towards the general direction of the sauna hotel, my overall expectation of the place and what I would do there was this: I would walk around naked in the building, perhaps bumping into friendly smiling other naked guys. The hallways would be bright and cheerful. In the communal bath house people would be chatty and perhaps lending a hand to other guys, both to scrub and perhaps to stroke :-)

My expectations were entirely wrong. I would soon find out that the place would be dark, quiet, and clinical.

It was dark by the time I got to the sauna hotel.

It was fairly easy to find using Google maps on my phone (exact GPS coordinates are 35.689858, 139.708807 - https://goo.gl/maps/P9V9J). The address is Tōkyō-to, Shinjuku-ku, Shinjuku, 2 Chome−13−1 (In Japanese: 東京都新宿区新宿２丁目１３−１).

Apparently the Shinjuku 2-chome area is known for being a bit of a gay cruising area. There were lots of bars around: “girls only night”, “guys for guys”…it looked like a pretty fun place…it didn’t feel unsafe.

I took a deep breath and headed up the stairs to the 2nd floor lobby. My heart was pounding. I tried to look and act cool.

Like many hot-spring spas in Japan, I had to take my shoes off at the front door, and put them into a locker.

Just to the left of the lockers was a glass cabinet full of gay porn and sex paraphernalia.

I tried to act like this was the most normal thing in the world for me to be doing on a Saturday night.

Approaching the lobby front, I mentioned that I had reserved a room for the night. The guys at the front desk were very friendly. Like, they made you feel at ease. Not like they were coming on to you, but like they were genuinely nice people. Just as well I had booked ahead though, because the place was booked out. Always is on the weekends, apparently.

There were a few other guys checking in. Most of them were just paying the 2,900yen (US$30) entrance fee, which allows you to stay in the facility for 12 hours. The 5,000yen (US$50) I paid covered the entrance fee (for a 12 hour stay) as well as the private room. The fees also include gown and towel rental. People who don’t get the private room have to (try to) sleep in one of the bunks or communal sleeping areas.

From what I have read, sleep is more or less impossible in the communal sleeping areas: snoring, invitations for sex, grunts and groans, the slapping of flesh against flesh…let’s just say that apparently the environment is not conducive to sleeping.

I got to the elevator and headed straight up to my room on the 7th floor. 

The inside of the elevator doors reminded patrons of the rules: fees payable for lost towels and gowns, rules for using the outdoor terrace at the top of the building (swimwear or towel compulsory), sun tanning machine fees, smartphone charging service, etc. And no chewing gum allowed.

The 7th floor hallway was bright and fairly chirpy. When I got off the elevator, there was a youngish guy Asian guy (didn’t look Japanese), perhaps late 20’s, in nothing but a towel, slim but not toned, leaning up against the wall. He looked at me. I noticed that he didn’t look away when I looked away. He just stood there. Not staring, as such. Just looking. I felt his gaze right up till when I closed my room door behind me.

I stood there in my room for a moment. Still had my backpack on. Just sort of processing what I’d just experienced since entering the building. So far, the place had a quiet eeriness to it…

(To be continued…)

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Part 1 (current post) | Part 2 | Part 3 | Part 4 | Part 5 (coming)

I got blown by two strangers in the weekend. Two Japanese guys. Which feels unreal to write. But it happened. And the full story, uncensored and in honest detail, is coming today…cue the feelings of complete and utter vulnerability. This is my story of experiencing the first time excitement and fear of casual sex…

One night, described in one five-part long-form blog series. First part hitting my Tumblr in 3 hours time (10pm Eastern time in the US).

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Part 1 | Part 2 | Part 3 | Part 4 | Part 5