Americans adults of all ages have been having sex less in recent years. The data extended through 2018.

Some of the decrease may represent fewer people having reluctant sex. I'm glad for people who can avoid what they don't want to do. But I am sure that in most cases this represents rejection and loss, not an escape, one that has gone on so long that it turns the world gray.

The survey did not cover teenagers, but I expect this decrease extends to them too. The new wave of prudery is part of the cause, but the general infantilisation of teenagers (epitomized by calling them "children" even when they are 17 years old) may be a bigger part.

Society should lead teenagers how to please their lovers and themselves; how to do well in joyous sexual relationships. Leading people to be confused and left out is society's failure.